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  • Intro to BDSM - Kink 101

    BDSM activities are generally organized into short events or "scenes". A scene involves two (or sometimes more) people who have negotiated what erotic activities they do and do not want to perform. It's sort of like a date that is well planned out ahead of time. Often these scenes will involve one person taking the lead or having temporary control over the other person.

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  • A mighty good thwack

    It is one thing to watch another person swing a cane, flogger, or strap in a spanking scene. You can get a sense of the angle and how the toy moves through the air just by watching someone else do it. You can get a sense of the pacing and the sound the toy will make. But when the toy is in your own hand it's hard to gauge how hard to swing it. What is too much and might hurt your partner?

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  • Introduction to wax play

    Wax play, the practise of applying warm wax to your partner's skin, is a fun and exciting experience. Having warm wax dripped onto your body can be both erotic and, surprisingly enough, relaxing. It's a great form of sensation play that many people find pleasurable. However, like many erotic activities, it's important to make safety a priority. View Post