Sex Stuff We Wish We Knew

  • Ask Jay - Choosing your first vibrator

    There are a lot of toy options out there, especially when it comes to vibrators. There are lots of different kinds, styles, colours, materials... And it's hard to know what you'll like. I don't know about you, but the first time I looked at a wall display of vibrators, it was intimidating because there were just so many shapes and sizes to choose from. View Post
  • How I learned to stop worrying and love her vibrator

    I think the key to making a lady's toys more appealing to men is getting across the idea that the toy is a nice addition to sex and intended to enhance the experience rather than replace anyone's role. The toy's presence will hopefully be presented as cooperative rather than competitive.

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  • When does sex start and stop for you?

    Sex can be fulfilling and naughty, it can be sweaty and spiritual, it can be connected and life affirming. Something I find that helps to insure everyone is having a good time, in whatever form that takes, is to set aside a common misconception about sex... View Post